transforming how families experience separation
Co-Parenting made dignified. simple. collaborative.
Gabriella Pomare is the award-winning author of The Collaborative Co-Parent. Family lawyer, co-parent & media commentator.
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The Collaborative Co-Parent | 2025 NYC Big Book Award
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A distinguished favorite in the 2025 NYC Independent Press Book Awards and Finalist 2024 ABLE Book Awards.
This book provides a mindful separation and parenting tool.
Together, we will navigate this journey and grow strong and resilient children. Separation is not the end—it is the beginning of a new journey providing you with the foundation to create a new type of family with your own rules.
This book is for anyone navigating the chaos of separation. It’s the parent lying awake at 2 a.m. wondering how their kids will survive this. It’s the mom or dad who keeps getting drawn into text-message wars and wants a way out. It’s the professional—lawyers, mediators, counselors—who needs a resource to put in a client’s hands that is compassionate but practical.
It’s also the parent who is years down the track and still feels like co-parenting is exhausting and toxic. This book says: you don’t have to stay stuck there.
And because I’ve lived it, my message lands differently. I know what it feels like to juggle preschool drop-offs while your heart is breaking. I know what it feels like to lose friends who think divorce is contagious. I also know the joy of seeing your child run freely between two homes because you’ve both done the work to create stability.
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The Collaborative Co-Parent was born from the rawest parts of my own life and the families I’ve worked with as a family lawyer. I want to see ‘collaborative co-parenting’ become as recognized as ‘conscious uncoupling’—a phrase and a philosophy parents can lean on when everything feels impossible.
THE COLLABORATIVE CO-PARENT
What is The Collaborative Co-Parent?
A mindful separation and parenting tool.
My goal is bigger than selling books. It’s to change lives. It’s to make sure that fewer children sit in therapists’ rooms at 25 saying, ‘my parents’ divorce ruined me.’ Instead, I want them to say, ‘my parents separated, but they put me first, and I always felt loved.’