We all talk about work–life balance — but what about life after divorce balance?
The juggle of motherhood, career, and co-parenting isn’t something most of us plan for. It’s something we survive — until we learn to rebuild.
When Gabriella Pomare separated, she was a young mum running a law firm, managing staff, and caring for her family — all while holding space for other people’s heartbreak in her work as a family lawyer. Somewhere between the courtrooms, client calls, and bedtime stories, she realised something profound: separation doesn’t have to mean the end of a family — it can be the beginning of a new one with new rules.
Today, Gabriella is a family lawyer, author of The Collaborative Co-Parent, and one of Australia’s most trusted voices in co-parenting and modern family wellbeing. Her message is rooted in both law and life — blending professional insight with personal truth to show parents, professionals, and workplaces that peace is possible, even after heartbreak.
Through her international media appearances Gabriella has become a go-to expert for conversations about family, emotional wellness, and resilience. Her talks don’t just inspire; they reset how people think about family, communication, and balance in every area of life.
Speaking Topics
Each keynote or workshop is practical, relatable, and deeply human — designed to leave audiences thinking differently about love, loss, and what it means to rebuild.
Most-Requested Topics:
- Two Homes, One Heart: How children can feel safe and connected across both homes
(For parents, educators, and professionals supporting families.)
- The Co-Parent Reset: How to rebuild peace, structure, and emotional stability when life feels fractured
(For all audiences — lessons in resilience, reflection, and repair.)
- The Power of Pause: Communication tools that lower conflict and change the way families — and teams — connect
(For workplaces, parents, and leaders — emotional intelligence in action.)
- New Family, New Rules: Redefining what family looks like after divorce — without guilt, resentment, or shame
(For parenting and wellness communities — creating modern, inclusive families.)
- When the Courtroom Isn’t the Answer: Changing the culture of conflict in family law and beyond
(For lawyers, mediators, and counsellors — building a future focused on collaboration, not combat.)
Who Gabriella Speaks To
Gabriella’s message resonates across every sphere — because the balance between family, work, and self-identity is universal.
- Parents & Families: How to co-parent calmly and create emotional safety for kids after separation.
- Corporate & Wellness Events: How emotional regulation, boundaries, and communication transform both work and home life.
- Educators & Schools: Helping teachers and communities support children of divorce with empathy and structure.
- Legal & Allied Professionals: A practical roadmap to transforming adversarial systems into collaborative ones.
- Media & Podcasts: Fresh, hopeful commentary on family, resilience, and re-imagining modern parenthood.
TESTIMONIALS
“Gabriella’s talk was the emotional heart of our event. She has the rare ability to blend warmth, vulnerability, and razor-sharp insight — our audience was captivated from start to finish.”
“Gabriella doesn’t just talk about co-parenting — she redefines it. Her honesty and clarity leave listeners feeling empowered to change how they show up in every relationship.”
“Gabriella’s message about pausing before reacting resonated far beyond parenting — our entire leadership team is now applying her principles in conflict management and communication training.”
“Parents left in tears — the good kind. Gabriella makes people feel seen and gives them practical hope they can use the moment they walk out the door.”
Before You Go
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