I’m Gabriella Pomare — a family lawyer, author, speaker and mother — and my work is about what happens when life doesn’t go to plan.

For more than a decade, I’ve sat across from parents at the moment their family was changing. I’ve seen the cost of conflict, the weight of expectations, and the quiet emotional labor carried — especially by women — when relationships break down. That insight led me to create The Collaborative Co-Parent — not just as a framework for separated parents, but as a broader way of thinking about emotional leadership. A way to move from reactivity to regulation, from control to clarity, and from survival to rebuilding.

Today, my keynotes sit at the intersection of separation and co-parenting, motherhood and womanhood, and the relentless juggle so many women carry — the pressure to be capable, composed and perfect while holding families, careers and identities together. I speak about unlearning outdated blueprints, releasing perfectionism, and learning which balls must be held — and which can finally be put down.

My talks are practical, human and deeply relatable. They connect the courtroom to the classroom, the boardroom to the kitchen table — because how we communicate in our most intimate relationships shapes how we lead, work and live everywhere else.

This isn’t about doing life perfectly.
It’s about doing it consciously — with dignity, clarity and courage.

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Gabriella is available for:

Keynotes & Panels – conferences, summits, and corporate wellness events
Workshops & Retreats – parenting, education, legal, and wellbeing sectors
Media & Podcasts – expert commentary on co-parenting, modern families, and emotional resilience

Why Gabriella

Authentic Experience: A practising family lawyer, mother, and advocate who has lived the lessons she teaches.
Global Perspective: Featured expert on leading Australian and U.S. television and media platforms.
Transformational Voice: Equips audiences with practical, compassionate strategies that inspire real-world change.

We talk endlessly about work–life balance — but rarely about balance after life breaks open.

The juggle of motherhood, career, identity and family change is not something most women plan for. It’s something we adapt to, survive, and eventually learn to rebuild — often while holding everyone else together.

When Gabriella Pomare experienced separation, she was a young mother running a law practice, leading a team, caring for her family and supporting others through their most vulnerable moments as a family lawyer. Between courtrooms, client calls and bedtime routines, she began to see a deeper truth: the challenges women face after separation aren’t just legal or logistical — they’re emotional, systemic and deeply human.

That insight reshaped her work and her message.

Today, Gabriella is a family lawyer, award-winning author of The Collaborative Co-Parent, and one of Australia’s most trusted voices on co-parenting, modern family wellbeing and emotional leadership. Her work now spans far beyond separation — exploring motherhood, perfectionism, ambition, identity shifts, resilience and the unseen juggle women carry across every chapter of life.

Rooted in both professional expertise and lived experience, Gabriella’s message shows that rebuilding isn’t about returning to who you were — it’s about becoming who you are now. That balance isn’t found by doing more, but by learning what truly matters, setting new rules, and letting go of outdated blueprints.

Through international media appearances and keynote speaking, Gabriella has become a go-to voice for conversations about family, womanhood, emotional wellness and resilience. Her talks don’t just inspire — they reset how people think about communication, leadership and balance in families, workplaces and everyday life.

Because peace isn’t passive.
It’s something we learn, practice — and lead.

Speaking Topics

Each keynote or workshop is practical, relatable, and deeply human — designed to leave audiences thinking differently about love, loss, and what it means to rebuild.

The Juggle No One Prepared Us For – An honest look at working motherhood, ambition and the invisible mental load women carry while holding families, careers and identity together.
From Survival to Emotional Leadership – How women rebuild confidence, boundaries and self-trust after life disruption, and why resilience is a skill that can be learned.
Two Homes, One Heart – How children experience safety and connection across two households, and what adults can do to reduce emotional fallout.
The Co-Parent Reset – A practical framework for rebuilding peace, structure and emotional stability when separation, conflict or burnout has fractured family life.
New Family, New Rules – Redefining family, motherhood and partnership after divorce without guilt, comparison or outdated expectations.
Perfectionism, Pressure & the ‘Good Woman’ Blueprint – Unlearning the standards that keep women over-functioning, exhausted and silently struggling.
The Power of Pause – Communication tools that lower conflict and change how families, teams and leaders respond under pressure.

Who Gabriella Speaks To

Gabriella’s message resonates across every sphere — because the balance between family, work, and self-identity is universal.

Parents & Families: How to co-parent calmly and create emotional safety for kids after separation.
Corporate & Wellness Events: How emotional regulation, boundaries, and communication transform both work and home life.
Educators & Schools: Helping teachers and communities support children of divorce with empathy and structure.
Legal & Allied Professionals: A practical roadmap to transforming adversarial systems into collaborative ones.
Media & Podcasts: Fresh, hopeful commentary on family, resilience, and re-imagining modern parenthood.

TESTIMONIALS

“Gabriella’s talk was the emotional heart of our event. She has the rare ability to blend warmth, vulnerability, and razor-sharp insight — our audience was captivated from start to finish.”

“Gabriella doesn’t just talk about co-parenting — she redefines it. Her honesty and clarity leave listeners feeling empowered to change how they show up in every relationship.”

“Gabriella’s message about pausing before reacting resonated far beyond parenting — our entire leadership team is now applying her principles in conflict management and communication training.”

“Parents left in tears — the good kind. Gabriella makes people feel seen and gives them practical hope they can use the moment they walk out the door.”

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